Friday, October 30, 2009

Fall Fun in Indiana

A couple of weeks ago the girls and I made our annual Fall trip to Indiana. For the last few years I've tried to make it home for a week in October, spending half of the time at my parent's and half of the time at Mike's parent's so that the girls can do the fun Fall stuff like hayrides and pumpkin picking with their grandparents and cousins.

We visited Northern Indiana first so that we'd be able to attend the Grand Opening of my parent's new office that week. I took the girls apple picking on Friday and pumpkin picking on Sunday.



On Saturday my grandparents had a Plow Day on their farm. Upon telling one of my friends that I attended my grandpa's plow day while at home, they said, "Oh how nice! So everyone gets together to help him plow his field?" After attending plow day, I'd say that it's not so much about plowing the field, but more about the antique tractors that have been lovingly restored and maintained by collectors. It was interesting to see the farm equipment of yesteryear. How lone farmers chugged along, bouncing on hard metal seats out in big fields under an even bigger sky on their little tractors; plows ripping through the soil and turning under crop residue after harvest. This is especially impressive to me when compared to today's mammoth farm machinery that can tackle an area the width of my living room and kitchen combined in an easy sweep. There may even be a day in my lifetime when the modern farmer doesn't even sit behind the wheel. He'll just program a computer and GPS will guide machinery up and down the rows of crop stubble. Plow day means that farmers bring their antique tractors and plows to a field and people come from miles around to admire them and bask in the nostalgia. And then there's food. A big lunch served at the mid-day break. The kids had a blast watching the tractors, climbing aboard and pretending to drive, racing pedal tractors in my grandpa's shop and cruising the event in a golf cart. I helped my grandma prepare for the day, but I didn't expect for it to be fun. I was pleasantly surprised.



On my final night up at my parent's I sent Ava and Riley out to the pole building to play with grandpa and kept Emily and Hudson inside with me while I packed. They are just 6 months apart and finally at an age that they play really well together. They made me laugh all night, communicating with one another in toddler speak. I brought them upstairs as I folded the last of our clothes into a suitcase. To give them room to play, I opened the door across the hall from the room where I was working (the nursery). I closed all other doors...bathroom, master bedroom. Those two are mischevous! As I folded, I heard loud flushing noises followed by helpless giggling. This occurred a few more times before I decided to investigate. I crossed the hallway to find the two cousins sitting in the rocker "reading" a potty training book with sound effect buttons. I'm glad my camera was nearby. I grabbed for it and caught the end of their fun!



On Wednesday we moved on to Mike's parent's, lovingly known to my children as Grandma Pammy and Papa Nick. You will notice an absence of pictures from this portion of my visit. They are all on Mike's mom's camera. I confess, when I made it to my mother and father-in-law's house, I got a little break. While I was home, my parents were busy getting ready for their open house and my sisters (both teachers) were finishing report cards and preparing for parent-teacher conferences. I found myself caring for 3 extra kiddos (my niece and nephews). All that family time was fun, but I was beat! I have a whole new respect for those moms with 5+ children. At my in-law's I had babysitters! Wednesday night I went out to dinner with friends while Ava and Emily played with their cousins under the supervision of Papa Nick and Uncle Dave. On Thursday, my daughters hit a class at the Children's Museum, The Haunted House, and the Zoo Boo with Grandma Pammy, Aunt Stacey, and cousins Nicholas and Tyler. I, on the other hand, met a friend for lunch, picked up Emily for naptime, and met up with everyone again for dinner. On Friday, we were all supposed to make our annual trip to the pumpkin patch, however we got rained out. We went to story time at our favorite children's book store, The Wild in Noblesville, instead. I do have the following pictures from our trip...on Friday night, Mike's whole family gathered for a family portrait and dinner after:

The whole family



The grandkids



Our happy little family



Ava at 5 years



Emily at almost 22 months



On Saturday, Mike and I joined our usual tailgate group, some of my sorority sisters, my dad, and brother in-law on Slayter Hill for my final Purdue Football tailgate party of the season. We topped off the night with Guitar Hero and a couple of rounds of euchre with Mike's sister and her husband at their house. It was a wonderful, busy visit home!

Autism Walk and Ava Live

A little over a year ago, I had no idea of how devastating the diagnosis, "Your child has autism" could be. I had no idea of the day to day challenges of raising a special needs child. And then we moved to Ohio and made some wonderful friends. A family whose son has autism. Over the last year I've learned so much more about what life with a special needs child is like. The various types of therapy, adaptations to be made in the home and at school, and the obstacles that exist to overcome. Today, I am more aware. In October our family walked in the Cleveland Autism Walk in support of our friends. The more research that can be funded, the more help and answers will be available to children living with autism. Here are my pictures of today's walk and some pics I snapped of our new city along the way.



By the time we returned home from the walk it was Emily's naptime. I was pretty beat too, so Emily and I retired to our rooms for a rest. Ava never runs out of energy, so she headed out to the garage to "help" daddy. When I came down with Emily a couple of hours later I found Ava on a small stage in our driveway, belting out Disney tunes. This explained all of the banging and pounding I'd heard outside my bedroom window. They'd been hammering nails into scrap wood to construct a stage. Mike carried the stage to the basement and hooked up a microphone for our little performer while I made dinner. I could hear Ava interviewing Mike as he tried to clean the basement. I wish I'd have gotten that on camera. Funny stuff! Here is some of the footage that I did record of Ava and her trusty sidekick, Emily on the new stage. This kid loves to hear the sound of her own voice(Gee...I wonder who she gets that from?)and she's very proud of how high she can sing. You'll see...you might just need to adjust your volume through the screechy parts. : ) Oh, and if there's any confusion about who actually taught Emily to talk, this should clear it up.

Please excuse our basement, it's a work in progress...